Questions tagged [politeness]

For questions about polite expressions, etiquette, formalities, social norms, etc.

This is an umbrella tag for all questions relating to phatic expressions:

[...] communication which serves a social function, such as social pleasantries that don't seek or offer information of intrinsic value but can signal willingness to observe conventional local expectations for politeness.

Use this tag if your question concerns how to express something in Chinese in a socially acceptable way: congratulations, good wishes, how to ask nicely, what to say in formal circumstances, how to make small talk, etc.

Questions about written etiquette — email closures, letters, invites, etc. — may be tagged [politeness] along with other appropriate tags specific to written language.

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What is a polite way to ask "may I ask who is speaking?"

A man I don't know calls me and starts talking to me in Chinese. All is fine, except I don't know who he is. I sense I'm not the person he's looking for. How do I ask who he is without being too blunt: "你是誰?"
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What is the polite way to respond to a sneeze in Chinese?

In English, one might say "bless you" or "gesundheit" in response to a friend sneezing. Is there a Chinese equivalent? If so, what is it?
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Is it polite to answer a question asked by a senior by starting with "回...的話"?

For example: 老師: 你多大了? 學生: 回先生的話, 學生今年八歲。 Or 學生: 回老師的話, 學生今年八歲。 It sounds very polite to me but I do not hear it often, even in the Chinese culture, where teachers are generally respected.
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Comparing forms of humble self reference

Because of one of the languages I grew up with, I have a strong desire to avoid using 我, especially when something follows that could constitute praise. I am always conscious that my language skill and brush writing are terrible, but everyone seems…
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