For example, I want to play a Firbolg life cleric (because our party desperately needs more healing) but for roleplay purposes I don't want him to wear armor so I was thinking that I could take the Unarmored Defense Feat and use my Wisdom like a monk. So imagine my surprise when I found out that it wasn't a feat and just a class feature of some classes. Thus my question.
My DM is pretty is pretty lenient so as long as the rules don't specifically say "This is forbidden" she'll probably let me do it. Now I know that this could be easily solved by just taking 1 level in monk so that's an option but not my first.
There is an extremely related question, Gaining Other Class Feats, but that doesn't answer my "Is it explicitly forbidden?" question.
Other related questions (both from 3.5):
Is choosing a different class feature too good as a (house rule) replacement for a redundant feat? Answer seems to be "No, that is a fine rule."
What can I do with an existing feat that I later get free as a class feature? Answer is "Retrain the feat for a new one."