Let $a \sim N(\mu_a,1/\tau)$, and $s = a + \epsilon$, where $\epsilon \sim N(0,1/\eta)$. I know that because both $a$ and $\epsilon$ is normal distribution, s must also be normally distributed with $s \sim N(\mu_a,\dfrac{\tau +\eta}{\tau\eta})$. $s$ is interpreted as a signal to $a$ that is not observed. Then the conditional expectation of $a$ given $s$ is given by:
\begin{align*} \mathbb{E}[a \mid s] & = \mu_a + \dfrac{cov(a,s)}{var(s)}(s-\mu_a)\\ & = \mu_a + \dfrac{\dfrac{1}{\tau}}{\dfrac{\tau + \eta}{\tau \eta}}(s-\mu_a) \\ & = \dfrac{\tau \mu_a + \eta s}{\tau + \eta} \end{align*}
Consider another $\tilde{s} = a + \tilde{\epsilon}$, where $\tilde{\epsilon} \sim N(0,1/\tilde{\eta})$. This is another signal to $a$, and $\tilde{\epsilon}$ is independent from $\epsilon$. We observe $s$ first, and update the belief, and then observe $\tilde{s}$. I would like to compute the expected value of $a$ given $s$, conditional on $\tilde{s}$.
That is, let $z = a \mid s$ be a conditional distribution of $a$ given $s$. Then I would like to compute $\mathbb{E}[z \mid \tilde{s}]$. I want to use the same formula as above, but I am unsure what $cov(z,\tilde{s})$ is.
I know $cov(z,\tilde{s}) = cov(z,a + \tilde{\epsilon}) = cov(z,a)$. How can I move forward from here?
EDIT: I have learned that the order of the signal does not matter for Bayesian updating. Then what I am really finding is:
\begin{align*} \mathbb{E}[z \mid \tilde{s}] = \mathbb{E}[a \mid s, \tilde{s}] & = \mu_a + \dfrac{cov(a,s)}{var(s)}(s-\mu_a) + \dfrac{cov(a,\tilde{s})}{var(\tilde{s})}(\tilde{s}-\mu_{a})\\ \end{align*}
Is this the correct approach? I don't feel confident, because $s$ and $\tilde{s}$ is correlated and the term above does not include any information regarding that.
EDIT2: Based on the Chris Leite's solution, this is what I understand so far:
\begin{align*} \mathbb{E}[z \mid \tilde{s}] & = \mathbb{E}[a \mid s, \tilde{s}] \\ & = \mathbb{E}[a \mid s'] \text{ where $s' = s + \tilde{s}$} \\ & = \mu_a + \dfrac{cov(a,s')}{var(s')}(s'-\mu_{s'}) \\ & = \mu_a + \dfrac{cov(a,s+\tilde{s})}{var(s+\tilde{s})}(s+\tilde{s}-2 \mu_{a}) \\ & = \mu_a + \dfrac{2var(a)}{var(s) + var(\tilde{s}) + 2cov(s,\tilde{s})}(s+\tilde{s}-2 \mu_{a}) \\ & = \mu_a + \dfrac{2\eta\tilde{\eta}}{\eta \tau + \tilde{\eta} \tau + 4 \eta \tilde{\eta}}(s+\tilde{s}-2 \mu_{a}) \\ \end{align*}