First, a comment regarding your model: given the hierarchical nature of your design (Region nested within Country) you should not include Country in by-Region random slopes:
m1 <- lmer(DV ~ IV*Country + (1+IV|Region), data = data)
Also note that, when random slopes for interactions are specified, random slopes for the associated main effects should also be included according to the principle of marginality.
Coming back to your question, to my understanding there is no agreement on how to calculate an effect size in LMM. Given the simplicity of your model, you may consider using an ANOVA model for which effect sizes are well defined.
If you really need LMM, you could make use of the coefficient of determination $R^2$ that has been proposed for LMM and that can be interpreted as variance explained by the model (Nakagawa & Schielzeth 2012). It is implemented in the MuMIn package. In your case you could roughly define the effect size of the interaction of interest as the difference between the $R^2$ of the model with the interaction minus the $R^2$ of the model without the interaction:
library(MuMIn)
m1 <- lmer(DV ~ IV*Country + (1+IV|Region), data = data)
m2 <- lmer(DV ~ IV+Country + (1+IV|Region), data = data)
es <- r.squaredGLMM(m1)[1] - r.squaredGLMM(m2)[1]
That would not necessarily be helpful in the context of a meta-analysis though, as you could not compare such an effect size with effect sizes obtained differently by other authors.