To use a file that is anywhere inside of OS, use --defaults-extra-file eg:
mysqldump --defaults-extra-file=/path/.sqlpwd [database] > [desiredoutput].sql
Note: .sqlpwd is just an example filename. You can use whatever you desire.
Note: MySQL will automatically check for ~/.my.cnf which can be used instead of --defaults-extra-file
If your using CRON like me, try this!
mysqldump --defaults-extra-file=/path/.sqlpwd [database] > "$(date '+%F').sql"
Required Permission and Recommended Ownership
sudo chmod 600 /path/.sqlpwd && sudo chown $USER:nogroup /path/.sqlpwd
.sqlpwd contents:
[mysqldump]
user=username
password=password
Other examples to pass in .cnf or .sqlpwd
[mysql]
user=username
password=password
[mysqldiff]
user=username
password=password
[client]
user=username
password=password
If you wanted to log into a database automatically, you would need the [mysql] entry for instance.
You could now make an alias that auto connects you to DB
alias whateveryouwant="mysql --defaults-extra-file=/path/.sqlpwd [database]"
You can also only put the password inside .sqlpwd and pass the username via the script/cli. I'm not sure if this would improve security or not, that would be a different question all-together.
For completeness sake I will state you can do the following, but is extremely insecure and should never be used in a production environment:
mysqldump -u [user_name] -p[password] [database] > [desiredoutput].sql
Note: There is NO SPACE between -p and the password.
Eg -pPassWord is correct while -p Password is incorrect.