You have a few issues here.
The first is that you have your parameters backwards in your mysql_query() call - the "query" goes first, then the connection object:
$bankquery = mysql_query("SELECT bank FROM users WHERE username = $theUser", $con);
$cashquery = mysql_query("SELECT cash FROM users WHERE username = $theUser", $con);
The second is the statements immediately following these:
$bank = mysql_query($bankquery);
$cash = mysql_query($cashquery);
They don't do anything (except error); the original $bankquery and $cashquery values are the return-results of the mysql_query() results. You don't have to run them again.
A third issue is that you're not sanitizing the $theUser variable and you're using it directly in your queries (not surrounded by quotes). Without them, unless you have numeric values, you'll receive SQL errors. Try:
$theUser = mysql_real_escape_string($theUser);
$bankquery = mysql_query("SELECT bank FROM users WHERE username = '" . $theUser . "'", $con);