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I will give a simple one, which completes and clarify the previous answer by Wolfang Bangerth, so I'm not claiming the bounty.
Within a FEM approach you may in a first step discretize only the spatial domain:
\begin{equation}
u^h(x,t) = \sum_i \eta_i(x) U_i(t)
\end{equation}
so that
\begin{equation}
\frac{\partial u(x,t)}{\partial t} \approx
\frac{\partial u^h(x,t)}{\partial t} = \sum_i \eta_i(x) \dot U_i(t)
\end{equation}
where $\dot U_i$ are the time derivatives of the nodal unknowns. Applying the classical FEM method we end up, for linear problems, with an ODE's system like
\begin{equation}
A \dot U + K U = b
\end{equation}
Now we integrate with respect to time, forgetting the original PDE and the underlying mesh.
With this simple approach, stability with respect to time increment is defined at the ODE level, so that in the case of unconditionally stable methods we are not concerned about mesh. (Or at least, very bad meshes give raise to badly conditioned $K$ matrices, but this is another problem.)
In the case of explicit time integration, stability is linked to a generalized eigenvalue problem involving $A$ and $B$. Here for uniform meshes we have simple relations between $h$ and the stability limit, for non uniform meshes only estimates and bounds.
I have some experience in the field of non-linear continuum mechanics, where the ODE to be solved is
\begin{equation}
M(t)\ddot U + f_i(U, \dot U, \ldots \text{state variables}) = f_e(t)
\end{equation}
Here the stable time increment at time $t_0$ is linked to highest natural frequency $\omega_\text{max}$ (eigenvalue) of the linearized problem
\begin{equation}
M(t_0) \ddot U + K_{T} U = 0, \qquad U = U_\alpha \sin(\omega_\alpha t)
\end{equation}
where $K_T$ is the tangent stiffness matrix. Finding a good (but fast to compute) estimator of $\omega_\text{max}$ is crucial for efficiency and far from trivial.
This treatment (which is the most common in commercial non linear continuum mechanics FEM codes) does not directly addresses the problem of convergence in the time-space domain, since it relies on the simplistic assumption that convergence for the stationary problem
($t = t_0 = \text{constant}$) and a good time integrator solve the problem.
Of course the time-space convergence problem has been addressed, but as said above, this is only a partial answer to the question above