I have an 2D elastodynamics problem, that is a problem which is driven by the Cauchy equation: $$\rho\ddot u-\mathrm{div}\sigma=\rho f$$ where $u$ is the displacement, $\sigma$ the Cauchy stress tensor, $f$ the density of volumetric forces, and $\rho$ the mass density. The constituve law is Hook's law from linear elasticty (homogeneous and isotropic medium). To solve it numerically, I use the finite element method. After space discretization I will have the following equation: $$M\ddot u+Ku=F$$ where $M$ is the mass matrix, $K$ the stiffness matrix and $F$ the load vector. The solution of such an equation oscillate around an equilibrium position and my aim is to add a viscous damping term $C\dot u$ that will critically damp the system, by which I mean I would like to avoid the oscillatory behaviour as much as possible. The equation now reads: $$M\ddot u+C\dot u+Ku=F$$ The problem is how to choose the matrix $C$ that will achieve the desired effect?
In modal analysis of dynamic structures, the same term $C\dot u$ is added to the discretized Cauchy equation to take damped vibrations into account but for a different purpose: we search for proper modes of vibration. Here we already know the two proper modes of vibration: S-waves and P-waves. So taking into account this information, I would like to build a matrix $C$ that will reflect this physical fact and that contains only constants like $E$, $\mu$ (two classical elasticity modulus) and $\rho$, rather than assuming a Rayleigh damping term $C=\alpha M+\beta K$ and finding the relevant values of $\alpha$ and $\beta$ by hand (numerically).
Thank you very much for any idea!