Questions tagged [death]

Questions dealing with death, whether it be a specific person or pet, or a general discussion of how to broach this difficult subject with children.

Death affects us all.
Many young children will ask the question of "What happens when we die?"

Most children, who have pets, will experience the death of a pet at some time.

Children frequently experience the death of a grand parent, some a parent or a sibling. These all greatly impact the family unit and challenge the ability to parent.

The death of another child, friend or neighbour, also impacts children.

Children are confronted with death through the media, whether it be within atrocities, war, or local news headlines. This can present issues for parents.

Death can create or enhance many complex emotional, mental, spiritual, cultural and social difficulties. It can be regarded as a somewhat taboo subject within some societies, which can be challenging when parenting children.

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Lying to my daughter about her mother's death

My 10-year-old daughter's mother died last week. She was a masochist and suffered from depression and childhood issues. She, from what I understand, hung herself in her closet from a belt. I'm not sure if she intended to kill herself or if she was…
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Telling a child about a playmate's death

My grandson is 4 1/2. My family attends a small church so all the families are fairly close to each other. This weekend, one family lost their 8 year old son in a drowning accident. My daughter would like some advice about informing her son about…
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How should I talk to my child about death?

How should I explain death to a child under 5-6 years old if a close family member or friend dies?
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How can 17 year old daughter overcome her fear of both parents dying?

Ever since kindergarten, my 17 year old high school daughter cries at least once a week from her fear that her older than average parents will die too early — my husband and I were around 50 when she was born. She fears we'll — together or…
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How to talk to parents about death?

My parents have always tried to shelter me from trauma (divorces, illnesses and deaths in the family, and so on) which makes it difficult to broach the subject of death with them. This is more of an issue as they grow older and others in their…
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