You could use a less technical term, such as the old "efficiency expert".
Even if they don't know what it actually means, most people will at least think that they know what it means.
You're obviously an expert (now they're impressed), and what you do is to find ways of making things work better (and they know this must be a good thing to do).
You don't even need to define what "things" refers to, or what "better" means.
If they're open to specific examples, give very practical, not blatantly mathematical applications.
Mention the shortest-path problem for scheduling delivery routes, or bin-packing for getting as much into a truck as possible.
Generally, when people ask what someone does, they want to know what they accomplish, not the methods they use.
They don't care so much about what you do, but more about why anyone would pay you to do it.
If they need more, think of analogies.
Many decades ago, when computers cost millions, I could never explain to my father what I did as a computer programmer, writing small ad hoc and general purpose programs to help people get their work done.
Eventually I told him I designed and built "jigs" to help the professors to do their jobs, and because of his industrial background, he finally understood it.
For those that don't know, a "jig" is a small tool designed for a very specific purpose and typically used for only a short time.
For instance, when drilling holes for kitchen cabinet door knobs, I glued small strips of wood along two adjacent edges of a 2"×3" rectangle of Masonite, and drilled a hole in the appropriate place. Then I could simply hold this tool firmly in place on one corner of each door and drill through the hole, thereby ensuring that all the knobs would be positioned identically without having to individually measure and mark each corner. That temporary tool was a "jig".
I figure out the best thing to do when you don't know what the hell's going on, and when you think you do but you really don't.
– Mark L. Stone May 15 '22 at 01:59