So here is the context: Suppose as a tourist one is helped by someone (not a local though), talking to the locals to get the right directions for me etc. Chances of meeting again seem negligible unless huge (and I mean really huge) coincidences happen. In the end while separating, she says "à bientôt". Wouldn't "au revoir" been more relevant? What is the difference between the two?
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Your are right "Au revoir" is the good way to leave somebody you will not meet again.
"À bientôt" may be a habit, or a try to encourage the foreigner to come back again in France!
With the latter you hope you will see the person again within a short period of time. With the former, the lapse period is simply indefinite.
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Thanks very much. Could you explain me what you mean with your last sentence, please? – Abhimanyu Arora May 26 '14 at 09:55
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Sorry, to understand replace maner by line (about lines I've written) : "à bientôt" (see you in a short time), "au revoir" (see you later) – Personne May 26 '14 at 16:32
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Au revoir is, as you say, indefinite (general). I would say that a better way to say good-bye to someone you are pretty sure you will not see again is adieu. Au revoir literally means until we see each other again. – Drew May 27 '14 at 04:00
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1Very good answer (+1) pointing the elegance or friendliness in the choice of à bientôt here. Yes it may be done deliberately against the practical odds, to indicate the hope of another meeting with the interlocutor. I remember doing this from time to time. Noone will be offended if in the end the meeting doesn't happen... – Romain Valeri Jun 12 '14 at 01:22
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3@Drew I wouldn't recommend using « adieu » even when you are sure you'll never meet again but stay with « au revoir » despite its inner meaning. Nowadays, in spoken French, « adieu » is almost only used for theatrical effects. – jlliagre Jun 12 '14 at 01:58
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1@jlliagre That's not my experience, but I'm no reference. Certainly, Au revoir is always appropriate (and is essentially good-bye), but I maintain what I said about Adieu. Perhaps I have been influenced by a particular regional use (Provence), where Adieu has, I am pretty sure, the connotation I suggested compared with Au revoir. I think I recall the same being the case in Ile de France and elsewhere, but it was longer ago that I lived in Paris, so I might be mistaken about that. – Drew Jun 12 '14 at 02:50
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2@Drew Provence usage is special, "Adieu" is still used there, especially by elder people, as a generic greeting (Hello, Bye) from the Provencal "A Diéu Sias" (Be to God), Occitan "Adieussiatz". It hasn't at all here the standard French "last salutation" meaning. – jlliagre Jun 12 '14 at 06:24
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@jlliagre That makes sense. Thanks for the info. But I do recall more than one 30-40 year old provencal explaining that Adieu is meant as a more-or-less final good-bye (and not also as an Aloha-like hell). Perhaps they themselves were not clear on the meaning. – Drew Jun 12 '14 at 13:49
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The perfect time to say 'Adieu' is when you are going off to fight a battle and you don't plan on coming back. I've also seen it in the context of never wanting to see someone again. – unflores Jun 17 '16 at 12:03
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It's more about how soon you expect to meet that person again, and how close you are to the person (if you're close, you'll probably meet again soon, though).
Au revoir litterally means "until next time we meet".
So, in order of increasing time span:
A tout de suite: see you in a bit, for example when you separate, usually under an hour
à tout à l'heure: within the day
à plus tard: see you later
à plus: undefined time span
à bientôt: other meeting greatly expected, sooner or later, kind way to say goodbye
au revoir: more formal, more distant than "à bientôt"
adieu: farewell, might be linked to "à dieu", meaning "at god", or when we'll be at god's side.
- casse toi pov con: presidential way to say goodbye to an old man who doesn't want to shake your hand
Now you bring this question, i'm wondering if there are so many ways to say goodbye in other languages.
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A bientôt is see you soon in my opinion. So you aren't supposed to use it if there are few chances to meet the person again in the near future. Unlike au revoir that doesn't necessarily mean you are going to meet again, despite revoir meaning... to see again. – Destal Mar 17 '17 at 10:48
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If you translate it literally. It means "see you soon". But a lot of people say it just to say "good bye". They say too "à tout à l'heure" (or "tantôt" in Belgium) which means "see you later" even if you don't see him later. Just another way to say "good bye".
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Bientot means soon; A, in this case, is used in the sense of until, rather than "to" - in effect, a shortening of jusqu'a. So the implication is "until soon"
Au revoir utilizes the same sense of A - and revoir is voir - "to see" and re - again, so revoir is to see again. A bit more abstract and indefinite - "until the seeing again" or until we meet again - whenever that might be.
A bientot would be used in the case of, say, I'll see you after lunch, whereas au revoir might be used when seeing someone off at an airport on a trip.
Finally, adieu is, in essence, the analog of vaya con dios - go with God - and would be used when it is not at all clear that you will meet again.
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