I am a big guy, I was 6 feet 2 and weighed 110 KG when I decided to get into better shape. I have had a fear of Gym and never went to one till now. I started doing weight lifting 4 days a week and cardio twice a week. I divided my Gym workout into Upper & Lower body workouts and also started to eat healthy high protein low carb diet.
The first 2 months I got very good results and lost 6 KG but then after that I have stalled and nothing I try seems to be working. I consume less than 1800 calories per day and keep my carb intake to less than 150 grams. Still for the past 2.5 months I haven't seen any change in my measurements or in the weight. The problem is that now when I train in gym some of my body parts don't feel the heat. When I try to do chest press with 15 KG dumbbells, I feel I am not lifting enough weight, but I cannot go above 15 KG because my arms are not strong enough to support that weight. I need advise from someone who has been down the same road on what I am doing wrong and how to get out of the mental frustration state where I feel I am putting a lot of effort but it's not paying off.
I have been doing moderate cardio. I run for 30 minutes at a speed of 7.5 twice a week. HIIT is something I just cannot do in my current bad shape. Would really like to hear an advice from you guys.