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For example, I was listening to an audio book the other day and the author mispronounced a word which got the audience laughing. Until that point, I didn't even know that there was an audience and that the whole thing was a live recording.

Another example might be that you find litter in a section of a street which is usually super clean. This gets you thinking about how the street cleaners do a really good job. Or imagine the internet connection at your house breaks down and you thus realize that it has been remarkably reliable for the past 4 years.

It's both about realizing that something is flawless otherwise and appreciating it.

Any expression, proverb, or single word is appreciated!

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    These little quirks provide an occasional reminder that streets don't clean themselves and readings are still an active form of the performing arts. – Phil Sweet Apr 04 '16 at 00:52
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    Your answer is almost already there in your question title: Flawless otherwise – Hanky Panky Apr 04 '16 at 05:59
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    Another (formerly) famous example: there's an old allegory that refers to a statue of a horse that was so lifelike, no one appreciated it until the artist deliberately added a scratch - because they all just thought it was another horse in the park. – sq33G Apr 04 '16 at 09:48
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    Perhaps a valuable word for your use case, "Kintsugi": https://youtu.be/EBUTQkaSSTY – greduan Apr 04 '16 at 18:10
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    I was considering answering with "a fly in the ointment" but have discounted it because that idiom emphasises the enjoyment is spoiled, which seems to be opposite of what OP wants to say. – k1eran Apr 04 '16 at 20:29
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    Along the line of @greduan, I initially thought of the Japanese loanword wabi-sabi, but that's more about something being beautiful due to its imperfections, rather than a single imperfection highlighting the otherwise perfect nature. – R.M. Apr 04 '16 at 22:40
  • I'm quite certain there is some sort of Greek myth that is used as a metaphor for this sort of thing, but it's not coming to me. – Hot Licks Apr 07 '16 at 23:34

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This isn't the general answer you're asking for, but was too long for a comment: An excellent example is the Persian Flaw, the namesake of which was when Persians, while weaving rugs intended to be perfectly made, would intentionally add an 'imperfect stitch' or other minor imperfection to honor and demonstrate their spiritual belief that humans can never be perfect.

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  • This is the first thing I thought of when I read the question. – delliottg Apr 04 '16 at 21:23
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    Native Americans had a similar tradition of adding a "spirit bead" to their beadwork as an intentional mistake. – sourcenouveau Apr 06 '16 at 14:54
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    I've been told the Amish in the US Midwest have this same practice, when making quilts. – Hot Licks Apr 06 '16 at 22:23
  • The persian flaw is a very interesting concept. I was generally not thinking of imperfections that have been artificially introduced, but rather of those that occur naturally. Nevertheless, I'll add it to my vocabulary as it seems very well suited to describe these kind of faults in clothing, ornaments, etc. – pixelperfect Apr 07 '16 at 12:06
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On a woman's face, it is called a beauty spot. The spot, either a small mole or an artificial spot applied to the face, was considered to enhance the complexion, or some other feature, rather than mar it.

Wikipedia, beauty spot

a small natural or artificial mark such as a mole on a woman's face, considered to enhance another feature.

In Early Modern Medicine, Beauty Spots and the French Pox:

The beauty spot is the trademark of the eighteenth-century’s powdered beauties, both male and female. To achieve a beauty spot when one did not occur naturally, people took to wearing false ones made from velvet and stuck on to the face.

In Antoine Le Camus’ Abdeker: or the Art of Preserving Beauty (1754), after seeing a fly land on Fatima’s beautiful face, Abdeker remarks, ‘I think its Blackness sets off the Lustre of the Vermillion [and] makes your Eye look more lively and amourous’

Thus, you may refer to any small imperfection that calls attention to the perfection of the whole as a beauty spot.

Critique of my answer:

The OP mentioned a piece of litter. Litter, IMO, can never be a beauty spot.

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    "Imperfection" alone sounds right, it implies the rest is perfect – Xen2050 Apr 04 '16 at 11:25
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    Beauty spot was my first idea because it describes exactly what the OP asked for, just for faces. Merriam-Webster lists the term with a second, general meaning of "a beautiful place". That, unfortunately, precludes metaphorical uses like "The train station was the city's beauty spot", because it would be ambiguous (was it really beautiful or not?). – Peter - Reinstate Monica Apr 05 '16 at 10:23
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    "beauty mark" is the form that I'm familiar with, which perhaps better emphasizes the "flaw" aspect. – pkamb Apr 05 '16 at 22:56
  • Would you describe the breaking down of the internet connection as a "beauty spot"? – Mari-Lou A Apr 06 '16 at 13:33
  • @Mari-Lou No, but then the Internet is hardly perfection, IMO. I don't know what to do about the imperfection of my answer (which I acknowledged in the last sentence, Critique), so I have decided to just enjoy the fact that a lot of people like it. So often they don't. – ab2 Apr 06 '16 at 18:03
  • None of the answers proposed work, not even "Persian flaw", which is about a deliberate error to remind oneself that only God/Allah is perfect. The mistakes described by the OP are either accidental or caused by human error/shortcomings. – Mari-Lou A Apr 06 '16 at 18:12
  • @Mari-Lou A I think eye-opener works, for the litter, the breakdown in the Internet and for the attractive imperfection. Elian's answer. – ab2 Apr 06 '16 at 18:21
  • An eye opener doesn't suggest to me that a project/concept/situation/performance was practically perfect excluding that insignificant slip-up. – Mari-Lou A Apr 06 '16 at 18:24
  • @Mari-Lou A soon the monitor will enter and tell us to move to chat, which neither of us wants to do, so I'll exit with one suggestion: is it entropy? – ab2 Apr 06 '16 at 18:43
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An expression that fits what you're asking for is the exception that proves the rule, and you've done a very good job of articulating why there is such an expression.

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    +1, better than "Persian Flaw" because it's self-explanatory (comparatively) – DCShannon Apr 04 '16 at 19:49
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    This turn of phrase should be discouraged. It is a widespread misuse of "prove" that assumes a positive outcome has been demonstrated, and generations of smug idiots now think that finding an exception demonstrates the validity of the violated principle. Even allowing that modern interpretation of "proof" is "successful validation", an exception to a rule disproves it. – Peter Wone Apr 05 '16 at 00:41
  • I was going to comment on 'proving' here being derived from the meaning of 'proof test'; however, I see that the link provided already explains that this derivation is actually less likely than the proposed latin origin. Oh well! – paulw1128 Apr 05 '16 at 14:47
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    @Peter Wone - Many smug idiots might feel that the discussion referred to in this answer, not to mention the Wikipedia article on the subject, permits them to feel somewhat justified in this usage. Of course, some other smug idiots might not. – Jeremy Apr 06 '16 at 12:10
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    @Jeremy - if they were that well educated they wouldn't make such an asinine interpretation. The example in that Wikipedia article is so lame they make excuses for it, softening to "proves the existence of the rule". What rule is shown to exist? You can infer that the place is parking regulated but there is no information about default regulations. – Peter Wone Apr 06 '16 at 21:21
  • @PeterWone - I agree the use of this phrase should be discouraged, but only because so few people understand the "proper" meaning of the entire phrase. Misinterpretation of just the word "prove" is actually ancillary to proper understanding of the whole phrase. The Wikipedia article, if you bother to read the whole thing, does actually address this quite well (and is frankly a much better explanation than the one linked to in the answer). – John Y Aug 28 '17 at 18:45
  • @JohnY - I did read it all. The point I wanted to make is the point with which you agree. Mine is pragmatic advice embittered by the memory of every time this phrase has been used to successfully present contra-evidence as evidence. – Peter Wone Aug 29 '17 at 06:45
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Consider, eye-opener

: something that shows or teaches you something in a surprising way

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    This generally has the opposite connotation -- that you were blind to the flaws, but something made you acutely aware of them. – Matthew Read Apr 04 '16 at 23:03
  • This is a very interesting proposition, as it's quite self-explanatory. If the context however – as Matthew Read – mentions is that you have been blind to the flaws rather than the perfection, one would have to put forward enough context that the reader understands it properly. – pixelperfect Apr 07 '16 at 12:12
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It doesn't fit all of your examples, but for most of them the saying "You don't know what you've got until it's gone" (and its multiple variations) fits quite well.

Closely related is "You never miss the water till the well runs dry."

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    "You don't know what you've got until it's gone" ♫ They paved paradise and put up a parking lot… ♫ –  Apr 06 '16 at 19:14
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I don't know if this is a full answer, but otherwise perfect or otherwise impeccable would slot nicely into many sentences.

"A single piece of litter drew attention to an otherwise impeccable cleaning job"...

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I've heard of this in furniture making and in quilting by the Amish. http://cookiescreek.com/500/mistakes-in-quilts-amish-tradition-or-myth/

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A strategically placed imperfection can throw something into stark relief. This may be deliberate.

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A perfect imperfection (informal), perfect flaw, etc. ?

- Urban Dictionary

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