Does the meaning of "talk to" and "talk with" relate to their one-side or two-side conversation?
Asked
Active
Viewed 1,446 times
6
-
4Both can be used for two-side conversation, but you can also talk to a stone (it won't answer though), but not (usually) talk with a stone. – skymningen Aug 14 '13 at 07:29
-
@skymninge You could probably post that as an answer. – Aug 14 '13 at 08:51
-
“Talking to” or “talking with” – Em1 Aug 14 '13 at 10:31
-
Talk with can be considered more congenial, while talk to might be used in the case of a harsh reprimand. That's not always the case, though. – J.R. Aug 14 '13 at 21:45
2 Answers
5
Skyminge is correct. Talk to implies a one-sided conversation, and "talk to a stone" is an excellent example of this. It doesn't have to be one sided though, for example "I talked to my boss today", and you'd assume that he talked back too. Talk with implies both people are doing some of the talking. For example "I had a good talk with my wife last night, though it felt like I was talking to a brick wall".
Derek Knight
- 557
- 2
- 6
3
You are more likely to encounter talk with in American English. I have only heard it being used by Americans, on American television programmes and films. In the UK, people normally just say talk to. It seems that the differences between these are in their use. You can use talk with if you speak American English, but otherwise talk to will be enough.
It's the same with the words speak with.
Tristan
- 1,221
- 8
- 9