Is it possible for a society to live with deflationary prices and suffer no ill effects?
No, if you count above average unemployment, deeper recession and potentially more sluggish growth as “ill effects”. It is well established that deflation can make recessions much worse they need to be. In fact deflation was one of the important reasons that put the ‘Great’ into the Great Depression (See Friedman & Schwartz (1965) The Monetary History of United States. Ch 7). It is also well established that at least in short run deflation leads to unnecessarily high unemployment (e.g. see the discussion in Blanchard et al. macroeconomics: a European perspective). These negative effects may also result in damage to long term growth trajectory trough possible hysteresis effects, although evidence on this is less clear so you can treat it as a hypothesis for now.
However, deflation is not affecting economy in some binary way. The more the change in price level deviates from its optimum, the higher the negative effects will be. Although this relationship is not necessarily linear, it’s not on off relationship.
Yet, the conventional wisdom is that in the face of deflation, people will hoard money, not spend it on consumer goods/services, and the economy will collapse.
This is not at all what conventional wisdom says, if by conventional wisdom you mean the consensus in economics.
As already mentioned above deflation is not on/off switch for negative effects. With -0.05% change in price level you won’t get the same negative effects as with -10%. People won’t start hoarding money and reduce their spending to bare minimum because of small level of deflation. They will have larger incentive to postpone consumption, compared to counterfactual world with no inflation, and people might respond to that by adjusting their spending slightly at margin but small deflation will have only small effects.
This is clearly not the case in tech - just because you can get a better GPU next year for the same amount of money, doesn't change the fact that you really want to play the video game today and need spend money today to enjoy the experience.
You are being confused about deflation here. Deflation is economy wide phenomenon. If price of PC drops that is not deflation, as understood by macroeconomists. That is simply a relative price change compared to other products.
Hence you would not even expect that the “tech deflation”, will have the same effects as actual deflation. For example, even if prices in tech sector drop by 10%, if there is general deflation in economy that makes average consumer basket prices increase by 50% consumers will still have strong incentive to spend more today than tomorrow despite of the price drop in tech sector. Yes the price drop in tech sector might also have its own effect of intertemporal consumption patterns of tech itself but this effect will be actually offset by general inflation.
Moreover, moving from consumer decisions, even if tech prices drop, technology company still benefits from inflation eroding real value of nominal wages.
Hence, your observation about the price drop in tech sector does not really tell us much if anything about effects of actual deflation.
In principle, we can make the negative effects of inflation less severe by eliminating nominal frictions. However, while some sources of nominal frictions are just set by legislation (e.g. minimum wages, fixed pensions) and hence they could be eliminated (although I don’t think people would vote for that), others such as rigidity in above minimum wage wages can’t be easily solved.