Many online sources discuss the meaning and translation of Xiren's (袭人) name in Dream of the Red Chamber. But my question is that I recall there is some passage where the father Jia Zheng (賈政) gets angry when he discovers Baoyu has a servant named Xiren (袭人). I have not found this by searching commentaries or the text online. I have actually read the novel three times (in various translations) but now that I want to find this passage I have not been able to relocate it.
Can someone tell me where this passage is? Or does someone who knows the text well believe I am mistaken and there is no such passage?