many times the perceived object has a nature to it. that is, the feeling of beauty or ugliness is associated to some rendering of some particular. this is not going to agree with the objectification, rather, impulse to do so is warranted by the free will. therefore, if solidification is occurring via association of form and mind, that is only the way for a clueless person to gain the satisfaction of momentary bliss. now, you have to deal with the surrendering of that formalization, which is surely known as duhkha. thus one must eventually learn to choose the suffering paradigm or the paradigm of liberation. note: i object to the buddha, as he has already given too many good answers in so many quadrants.