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How can we prepare our child for the arrival of adopted siblings?
We are going through the process preparing to become adoptive parents. We have an 8-year-old biological child already. What are some things things we can do to help him be prepared,
A) for no longer being an only child; and
B) for the arrival of…
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Separated parents. As a dad, how do I exercise tough love without being the bad guy?
I am a father to a nine year old boy, I am separated from his mother and have been since before his birth. We don't really get on but we are civil for his sake and communicate maturely as and when it is required. We both have quite negative views…
anon
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How to motivate my extremely lazy 12-year-old?
My 12-year-old son is a good kid, but he is extremely unmotivated to do literally anything unless I or his mother are constantly riding him the whole time. As a young child, he was "easy" to raise because he could always entertain himself. There…
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Which is more important for a baby: keep the baby happy or keep the baby healthy
Let me illustrate with some examples:
A 5 month old wants to be held to sleep, and will cry hard if you put her down even for 1 min. She's clearly unhappy when not being held to sleep. Assuming no physical illness, should we just keep holding her…
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Is it ok to play a computer game with a 3yo
My 3yo daughter has recently noticed me playing Craft the World, a game which is (mostly) about dwarves working and building their home, with hardly any violence. She wanted to know what it's about, I started explaining, and after a while we've…
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Are ExerSaucers/walkers/jumpers bad for children or is that simply a misconception?
I have heard my whole life that the above mentioned types of toys delay walking and/or independent sitting (depending on the age they're used). I've even heard that they can hurt the infant's legs. I've never seen any research to suggest this is…
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When are kids old enough for an electric toothbrush?
We are brushing our (nearly) two-year-old's teeth with a normal, non-electric kids' toothbrush. That works well but I am wondering if it might not be more effective (and fun?) to use an electric brush, provided that I can buy bristles suitable for…
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Why does my child eat so slowly?
When we have a family meal, the middle daughter will always take her time. I mean up to 2 hours, to finish a meal, especially if its not her kind of food. She'll get very easily distracted, sing to herself, sometimes she'll even fall asleep. Even…
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Can I give my baby a bottle of breastmilk straight from the fridge?
I'm exclusively breastfeeding my baby, and occasionally give him pumped bottles. I generally try to warm them up before giving them to him, at least to room temperature. (I was once told as a tip to get babies used to room-temperature bottles right…
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Is there any solid evidence that being in a sitting position might be bad for babies (before they can sit up on their own)?
Babies around the age of five-seven months might be able to remain in a sitting position when parents put them into that position, but they are still unable to sit up unaided.
In Hungary where we live the common knowledge (reinforced by…
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What language should I use to talk to my baby?
I know two languages: My 'mother tongue' and English. I used to speak my mother tongue until I moved to an English-speaking country at the age of 8. Consequently, my mother tongue is at the level of a typical 8 year old i.e. I'm not very…
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At what age should you allow your kids to go out alone?
Whether its to visit a friend who lives a few streets away, or going to the park by themselves, or going to the local shop, at what age do you allow your kids to go out by themselves?
And what rules do you set down?
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What is a good physical activity for a seven-year old who loves falling down?
My son has tried a lot of sports and activities, and he rarely likes them. We are trying to find something new for him now, but we're running low on ideas. He has tried soccer, baseball, gymnastics, karate, and swimming. His level of interest in…
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How should we address stuttering in a toddler?
My 2.5 year old has recently developed what can be best described as a stutter.
It only seems to occur with us, and mostly when asking a question ("Wh, wh, wh, wh, what's that Daddy?). It's especially pronounced if he is tired.
It doesn't concern us…
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How to deal with my 12 year old's rebellious behavior?
My son just turned 12 a few months ago, and boy is he a handful!
He does not obey anything I say, curses at me, calls me names, throws tantrums, and hesitates to go to school every single day.
I have no clue what to do at this point. Is it boot…
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